不管是人或物，感情变了。。就是变了。要拿得起，放得下，才可以萧洒和快乐的活着。
Altho this is easily said than carried out, I still believe in it. Sometimes, letting go is a way of loving yourself and others.
Must be happy. Must love yourself. Then you can love others and make them happy.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Witnessed something quite terrible recently. But really, I asked myself why do I care so much for someone who is not related to me? I felt quite frustrated that she was so unappreciative and she even had the thinking that whatever well-meant advices were actually STUPID. Seriously, I don't regret because I know that I had done my best for us and I acknowledged that there is a limit to what I can do for others. Sometimes the most effective way to learn, is through the hard way. You will wake up only at the last moment.
I have been thinking a lot about raising children recently. In the past, what I thought of children was that they were so adorable and innocent. They still are, to a certain extent. But I think I have a wider perspective of seeing kids now. Like what if your kids take up the wrong path (become drug addicts)..mix with bad company..rebellious..talk back..dont give a damn about their future..seek alot of attention..has very poor health, etc. The worse is, when you fail to teach your own kids well. It's quite demoralizing, I feel. It affected me to the extent that I almost gave up the idea of having kids in future. Haha!! I guess I really take it too hard. Parents may play a large role in the upbringing of children, but there's 30-40% where it depends on the child's own will and the surroundings. Of course, there is alot more to learn on this topic. And I still have time for that.
What I dont have time for, is to attend a few language courses, go for yoga/pilates/dance classes, travel around the world, meet up with my cousins and play with my cute little nephews & nieces (they are gonna forget me soon. sob!), take up cooking class & music lessons, etc. Sometimes, time passes so fast. Other times, so slow!!!
The past few days I had 2 similar nightmares: my hamsters died! Oh man. When it happened the first time, I was crying so hard in the dream and I could still rem after I woke up. I hate to have such nightmares!!! Luckily it was just nightmare and not for real.
I have been thinking a lot about raising children recently. In the past, what I thought of children was that they were so adorable and innocent. They still are, to a certain extent. But I think I have a wider perspective of seeing kids now. Like what if your kids take up the wrong path (become drug addicts)..mix with bad company..rebellious..talk back..dont give a damn about their future..seek alot of attention..has very poor health, etc. The worse is, when you fail to teach your own kids well. It's quite demoralizing, I feel. It affected me to the extent that I almost gave up the idea of having kids in future. Haha!! I guess I really take it too hard. Parents may play a large role in the upbringing of children, but there's 30-40% where it depends on the child's own will and the surroundings. Of course, there is alot more to learn on this topic. And I still have time for that.
What I dont have time for, is to attend a few language courses, go for yoga/pilates/dance classes, travel around the world, meet up with my cousins and play with my cute little nephews & nieces (they are gonna forget me soon. sob!), take up cooking class & music lessons, etc. Sometimes, time passes so fast. Other times, so slow!!!
The past few days I had 2 similar nightmares: my hamsters died! Oh man. When it happened the first time, I was crying so hard in the dream and I could still rem after I woke up. I hate to have such nightmares!!! Luckily it was just nightmare and not for real.
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